We've been together for more than 2 years and i opened up before and told her my fantasies.
I even wore a cheap plastic chastity cage for her. 
She tried to be dominant.. she would let me worship her feet and ass but only when i asked for it.. she never made me do it or tell me to..
I tried to be very sumisive and always listen to her and do what she says..
The problems started when she became very confortable around the house.. she wouldn't take care of her so much she wouldn't even do her toenails or shower for like 3 days in a row... so that made me lose interest and act like an asshole she was very boring.. she had low esteem and was very wierd she wasn't dominant in any was she was weak.. so that made us fight alot. i always regreted when i yelled at her...
So here we are i love and respect her she became very hot meanwhile and i bought her a bunch of clothes and high heels and i try to be good to her.. she agreed to be my mistress and said she want me to be her slave and obey her but she doesn't make it any fun or worth it..
She doesn't always look hot or wear hot clothes... she is very shy and weak and she doesn't dominate me in any way.. she never makes me kneel in front of her making me kiss her feet.. not anything.. how can she be my mistress if she never acts like one?
I have dreams of being locked in a cage all the time and only realeased 2 times a month i want to give her all the money do everything in  the house and all that.. i just want her to be cobfident strong dominating and to treat me like a slave i want to depend on her.. i even want her to have a boyfriend and have sex with him in our house if she wants too... i don't know if shes really into any of that or shes just trying to do it for me.. shes not doing so good so far..HELP