Hi everyone. I'm looking for a good place to share my adventures in femdom. Maybe this subreddit will be a good place. Please no negative comments; this is my personal life and I'm sharing it with you.   


I finally was able to induce Pupik Boy\*\* into a truly submissive state, and the result was both cute and hilarious. 😇

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We started dating over a year ago. Then broke up in December, but have been hanging out again now. 

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He’s in my bed and I’m telling him about how he needs to get his life together. He’s got this self-destructive urge to experience rock bottom. 

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I tell him, you know it’s not a good idea to hit rock bottom in real life. That’s why people play kinky sex games so they can induce these extreme emotions, in a safe environment. 

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He asked, what do you mean? 

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I said, well I can tie you up. Make you feel powerless. Tell you what to do. Give you that feeling of “zero” that you crave. 

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It had been a serious conversation, but suddenly he got super turned on when I said that. 

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I continued: But I’m not going to just tie you up cuz I feel like it. That’s a lot of work. You have to do things for me, and show me that you really want this. You can start by cleaning your room. Yes, the whole thing. And vacuum it too. Do ALL your laundry. 

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(His room is a total shithole.) 

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What happened next was a surprise... he suddenly stood up and put his clothes on. 

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“What are you doing?”

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“I’m walking home to clean my room right now!” 

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He looked so excited to clean his room. I was laughing my face off—- it was 1AM. 😂😂😂  


I was super happy about this, because he is a mega brat. He needs structure in his life, but will do whatever he can to squirm away from anyone trying to control him. Especially a woman. Except that he secretly craves for someone to overcome him and control him. Especially a woman. How humiliating... 

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And FINALLY I was able to really control him! Probably cuz he knows that he really is letting his life fall apart, and I'm not happy about it.   


  
\*\*The word "pupik" in Yiddish means bellybutton. However my family has always used it as a euphemism for "penis." So I think it's a cute word to use during sex. like, "Oh, I can see that your little pupik is hard again."