So. I guess I wouldn’t class my husband and myself as  very kinky people.  He’s 28 footballer and for the most part is in control. 
A few months ago his football club a social event  and hired stage hypnotist. Hubby is popular at club and even though he was reluctant the boys got him up on stage.  And he went under deep.  Seeing my husband loose control like that was a huge turn on for me.
Since then I have got my hubby to go under at home 4 times. With some hypno files I bought. He didn’t like idea of listening to them at first but once I explained it was for my curiosity he was happy to oblige.
First three session I just watched him in trance. The last session I got a bit creative. We he was in trance I stopped MP3 and took over. I gave him a pair of swim briefs and told him to put them on. I then put on some  adult movies I found on his computer and made him watch them but also told him he couldn’t move. In swim briefs his arousal levevels were aparent.
Watching a very aroused/zoned out husband was a massive turn on for me.
Have others done this? Don’t know where to take it next. Thinking I should stop.