Over the past few years vanilla sex has bored me unless its been with other girls. I'm not interested in being dicked down by some clumsy loser anymore, I want to feel like the Goddess I am.
 I joined the BDSM scene as a typical fetishist but recently I've been approached by a lot of subs. The only issue is, I only find Big, Strong, Alpha males attractive & my fantasy is too break one of these men down, denying him the pussy he's so used to getting so easily, teasing him, torturing him, putting him in chastity & disciplining him how I see fit until he's my secret slave but still a complete Alpha in public. I want him so desperate that he cant resist pleasing me. 
The problem is no guys I've encountered are even remotely interested in this & are so stuck in their ways that they just continuously try to dominate me (Yawn) .... I'm pestered daily by so many beta males but it just doesn't do it for me, I don't want submission from the get go but most Alphas are too stubborn to be talked into submission .
Any FemDoms on here found & broken a Dom Male successfully, if so how did you meet? 

EDIT: THIS ISN'T AN INVITATION FOR PEOPLE TO START MESSAGING ME ASKING TO MEET. I JUST WANT TO HEAR ADVICE