Punishments are not that easy as it sounds, if your boy is truly submissive. Not easy, since most of us submissive men tend to like just about everything that might be categorized as punishment.

Example given, they can hardly wait to be spanked by their Domme. Unless the Domme is a crazy sadistic lady, no one really whips and beats their partners beyond what is “acceptable”.

The worst punishment for every sub, as well s for most people, is ignoring him completely. My wife does not really do that unless we have a huge quarrel of some kind, which actually we do not have anymore. But that was usually within vanilla routines.

Those punishments are more fictional within our Dom-sub play, but to give an example of a rare real thing…

So couple of weeks ago, I stood her up for lunch. Not really stood her up but I was really, really late for it. I did have a very good explanation for being late, and it is not like my wife has no understanding for good reasons, but she decided to use it as a motive for punishment. Once she told me I will be punished, I actually smiled about and disregarded it, since I expected it to be a part of play.

Few days later, come Friday, she said she will go out that evening with her girlfriends, for a ladies night out. Nothing special, usual stuff. Usually when she is out, we text each other occasionally. However that evening, she was quite scanty with the words. Whenever I’d ask something, she’d just reply with a yes or no. Around midnight, I texted her that I was going to bed for the night and asked her what she was doing, how was her night out. She replied “Looking for a better slave”!

I was like “whaat!?” Ok, larger part of me knew she was just joking, a smaller part of me was a bit upset about it. So I wanted to act cool and wrote back “good hunting and good night”. To that, she replied with “see you in the morning”. I had a bit trouble falling asleep, but after an hour or so, I managed and fell asleep. 

I woke up around 7:30 am just to see she was not back home yet. I panicked instantly. I love my wife dearly, so first thought was that perhaps something happened to her. I called her immediately but she did not reply. Then I texted her, but there was no reply to my text either. 

I was really freaking out at that moment, not knowing what happened or was going on.

After 45 minutes I heard the key clicks at front door. Instantly I calmed down, but remained still very confused. To be continued…

Mark