So I met this beautiful woman, she's 40ish, I am few years older. I really like her a lot, we get along nicely and I think this might be a beginning of a beautiful story for us.
From the very start, I let her know my desires for a Female Led Relationship. She was asking a lot of questions about it, so I frankly answered all that I could, being not so experienced myself, I could not answer all. So she went along with my kinks and seemed to like at least some parts of it. It is mostly linked to sex, meaning not much "femdom" activity outside of the bed. I can't say it is frustrating, since I am perfectly able to function in vanilla manner, but I did hope for more out-of-bed "femdoming". Further more, intensity of it al is not increasing, rather decreasing lately. She never said she does not want such relationship, but also she is not showing and signs that she really likes it. Feels like she struggles with it all just to make me happy, which I really do not like.
My questions are, should I abandon the idea and continue vanilla with her? Anyone has / had a similar situation?
Thanks...