I confessed about my femdom fantasies to my wife 3 years back and asked her to be my domme. A lot of persuasion was needed by me for her to cane me, put me in chastity  device to let me worship her pussy and asshole. She was half headtedly into it like i would be locked the key would be easily accessible. The caning improved with time with just touches to nice power ful strokes. Last week she asked me to lock myself and give her the key that was  a first. Then two days afterwards she said i want to give u a caning and she gave 12 strokes. The day before  yesterday  i was asked to give her a massage she asked me to bring the cane as well, with me locked in the chastity belt i started massaging her.,then accidentally my nail scratched her, while lying on the bed she asked me to bend forward she took the cane gave me a few strokes. I was careful afterwards and again onece i scrapped her i was given a caning again and asked to properly cut my nails. There was certain power rush i could see in her. I had dripped precum like anything the floor was sticky. I was happy she just asked  me to sleep afterwards. Preety happy i hope she gets more dominant  and it continues. There is  a certain change i can feel. To all others keep on trying and hopefully one day u will get to serve ur mistress