I'm surprised at how soon my boyfriend agreed, but I think deep down he actually wants it more than I do. :) I contacted friends who I know are kinky or love male strippers, four are coming. Only one has seen him naked before. :)

For reference, here are the rules me and him agreed to:

-   The party will run 7pm-10pm. These strictly defined hours are to help my boyfriend through it since he can count down exactly how many minutes he's made it through and how many remain. After 10 the party can continue but he won't be required to be naked or submissive. Most likely we'll just hit a club and let him unwind at home.

-   No photos or videos allowed.

-   He's given me a $200 "deposit". If he chickens out and ends the party before 10pm, we'll use the deposit for a girls night out. If he makes it past 10pm, I'll pay him back $250.

-   The guests can touch within limits. No touching orfices other head and "shaft" of his penis. Fondling his balls is allowed. They can smack his ass but only I can give him a full on spanking which I'll do if he runs afoul of any of the boundaries. Even if he doesn't he'll get one just for fun.

-   Bitch boy can only speak if spoken to. If given orders by a guest under the rules he must obey. Guests are allowed to comment on his body within earshot and to his face and he may only respond if directly asked a question. Commenting on his penis size and comparing to past and future partners is encouraged*.

-   The "clothed female" portion will also be strictly enforced, the exception being bare feet are required. (Bitch boy has a foot fetish so this is throwing him a bone bssically.) Guests are allowed to demand foot massages and shoulder and back rubs and he must comply.

-   Bitch boy is permitted two "breaks" when he can leave the main area to use the bathroom or just gather himself a bit if overwhelmed. There is a time limit of five minutes. If he overstays it I'll go get him and see if the party is continuing, if not he forfeits the deposit, if so he returns but will be publicly spanked by me.

-   The "grand finale" will be right before 10pm. Then we'll all gather around the living room couch while bitch boy masturbates on the floor for us. Prior to this he's not allowed to touch his penis in any way. Once he explodes I'll scoop up and feed him a few scoops of his cum but he won't be required to eat all of it.

An additional reward is the next day he gets a full blowjob from me where I'll swallow it all and a "gift card" he can turn in for another swallowing blowjob he can "cash in" whenever he wants.

Thoughts and advice? Hopefully this won't be the last and the rules will be changed based on how it goes. Our hope is one of the guests has a boyfriend/husband also willing to take part so we can do a double party at some point!

*If you're curious about his size I'll describe it as "smedium", he's probably close to the average penis size but I bet falls all so slightly on the smaller end.