I found out about my husbands fetish after my husband accidentally left a femdom pic site minimized on his PC.

Not once had he ever mentioned this in 20 years of marriage.  Our sex life had been pretty vanilla up until about 5 years about when he started having ED problems (He’s 58 now) and for the last few years we have mostly just masturbated together and I’ve been fine with that. 

So I confronted him and asked him how long he had been fantasizing about me sexually dominating him.  He was extremely embarrassed but he finally admitted that this was something he had been dealing with the entire time we have been married.

The site he had left up had pics of a women using a strapon on a man that was wearing fishnet stockings, and then feeding him his own cum after he came in her hand, so we’re talking pretty hardcore (at least to me) stuff.

My husband said he had never said anything about this because he was embarrassed and he didn’t think I would be into it.  

I was upset that he had kept something like this from me and I asked him a lot of questions that I could tell we’re very embarrassing for him.  I asked him when we were having sex if he fantasized about me sexually dominating him and he admitted he did.  I asked him how often and he admitted almost every time.  

Over the next week I read a good bit on what men that are into being sexually dominated want and discovered that being fucked by a woman and made to eat their own cum are pretty much standard fantasies for men into being sexually dominated, along with the need to be humiliated by having to wear stockings, women’s, panties, shave their body hair.  I read that some men actually ask their wife’s to urinate on them, even urinate in their mouths and ask them to swallow it, or ask their wife’s to ask them to her anus, and suck her toes.  Some men even want to be locked into chastity devices and may even want to be humiliated by having to watch other men having sex with their wife, and licking the other men’s semen off of or out of their wives.  I read that some men may even want their wife’s to ask them suck the other mans  penis.  

After giving it some thought I told my husband that I would be willing to try some things I had read about but would draw line for now at anything involving cutting or leaving marks, scat, or cuckolding, and left it at that. 

I ordered a Strapon and some disposable enemas and last night I asked my husband if he was ready to reverse roles.  I handed him a disposable enema and told him to go get cleaned out. 

I think the reality of what was getting ready to happen had not set in yet and he looked a little confused and asked what are we going to do.  

I said “You are going to go and use this \[the enema\] and when you come back I am going to tell you to bend over the edge of the bed.  I am then going to fuck you until you tell me you are getting ready to cum at which point I am going to put my hand under you and let you cum in my hand.  Then I am then going to lift my hand to your mouth and you are going to eat your cum for me.  This will be uncomfortable for a while until you get used to it.  This is what you want, right?”  

He looked down.  I could tell he was embarrassed.   He softly said “Yes”.  

I kissed him on the cheek and told him it would be OK to go get ready.

A few minutes later I fucked him for the first time.  I was surprised that I actually enjoyed it.  Hearing him whimper and then cry out as he came as I was fucking him was pretty damn hot.  

Later as he lay next to me while I masturbated I asked him if he would let me fuck him like this for now on and he said yes.  Hearing him say that made me cum harder than I have in a long time.