For the last few months, my husband (M36) and I (F34) have started this verison of orgasm control where  I will have total control over his penis, and its his duty to sexually please me when and how I ask. Normally he is the more dominant one in the bedroom, so it's a fun switch up to be the one who is totally in control (getting sexual pleasure on command also has its perks!). Most of the time this will last for about a week ( or more :) ) until I feel satisfied enough to grant him his freedom.

Sometimes I don't necessarily feel like being sexually pleasured and will instead opt for a full body massage. This tends to drive him CRAZY, and its entertaining for me to see just how eagerly he wants to pleasure me sexually after a day of denial, even though he knows he'll be getting nothing in return! There have even been cases where he's begged to simply touch me. When I've decided to receive a massage, I've found he does a better job if I tell him there is a possibility that he will get to sexually please me if he does a satisfying job, even though in the back of my mind I've already decided whether or not ill be getting a happy ending regardless of how well he does. Sometimes afterward ill allow him to feel my breast or caress my pussy just to throw him a bone.


Another great product of giving him incentives is that it opens the door for things I hadn't experienced in the past. For instance, recently he was giving me a massage and doing his typical begging to be allowed to sexually pleasure me. To which I replied, "If you really want to pleasure me so badly then lick my ass, and don't get anywhere near my pussy, then we can talk about what's next!". Part of me said this just to get him to be quiet because we had never done anything like this before and I assumed he'd say no, but another part of me was very interested in the idea. I could sense him thinking about the request. Sure enough, seconds later he went to work down there and it was quite an exhilarating sensation to say the least! After a few minutes of this I reached a small orgasm and had him stop. Being the cruel mistress I am, I only allowed him to feel my breast for a bit before demanding he go to bed


The best part of this arrangement is being able to have my demands met at any time. I could be watching a movie or reading a book, and all I have to do is tell him to get on his knees and pleasure me until I say he can stop. There's also nothing like a good face sitting session to end the day!  It's very entertaining to see how much his eagerness to please me grows and grows as the days go on. You can tell when he's really starting to lose his mind as he'll start to follow me around like a puppy dog through the house rubbing my shoulders and caressing my hair. Almost like he thinks he needs to remind me that I'm in complete control.  

To me, the idea of not allowing him to touch himself even though he's physically able to is empowering and a huge turn on. I love to blatantly ignore his desperately throbing cock as he meets my every desire...sometimes ill give it the slightest touch, making it twitch and nearly explode. Typically, when he does get his release,  it will be after a long massage and face sitting session. During which I will use my vibrator to reach completion in his mouth and on his face while very lightly teasing his cock. I then straddle him for a (quick) ride to his completion. This drives home the idea that I'm the one in control of his release,  NOT him.


Has anymore here experimented with a similar fetish? What are some ideas you could share