Lately, my sex drive has been getting higher and higher. For as long as I can remember I’ve been into being used, choked, spanked, and fucked in two holes but this year I discovered something new.
It started with my ex who wanted to be called a "good boy" during sex. He loved words of encouragement, things like "Oh, you’re doing so well. My clit is going to explode if you keep going".
After a while he opened up and told me he wanted me to take a little more control. I started giving him orders, like telling him he wasn’t allowed to cum until I had come at least twice 🥵
The final step was when he admitted how hot he found ballbusting. For him, it was mostly about the idea of control, male vulnerability, and giving that power to me rather than anything particularly intense.
And that was it. One time, while he was fucking me from behind I grabbed his balls and said, "You’re mine" Soon after we both came insanely hard. I was still leaking afterward for what felt like forever 💦
When we were still living together, I would constantly tease him whenever he didn’t want to do something by saying I’d kick him in the balls, and suddenly he’d do it immediately. Just hearing me say things like that turned him on so much that sometimes even his jeans ended up visibly wet.
Sometimes when the mood was right, I’d text him things like "Balls are just a weakness".
Even now, when I masturbate, I sometimes think about how easy it can be to take control, and there’s something about that dynamic that has really started to grow on me.
Of course, this is only one small part of my fetish catalogue lol, but I wanted to share the female perspective on discovering a dominant side I didn’t really know I had.