Hey everybody, it's me, the guy who gets his balls busted by his girlfriend everyday. Remember? Here's my previous post if you don't.
I called my girlfriend as Jenna in my previous post, so I'm going to do the same for this post as well. So whenever I say Jenna, I'm referring to my girlfriend.
In my previous post, many people told me that what Jenna is doing is wrong and I should either leave her or have a serious conversation with her until she stops. I didn't really have the heart to breakup with her just like that without trying out other methods first, so I thought that maybe I should first try the first method that is to have a serious conversation with her.
I couldn't just start the conversation, I thought that I should maybe wait till Jenna hits me there first to start the conversation, so I lied down on my bed, spread my legs wide and I was waiting for Jenna to hit me in the balls (what am I doing with my life?). Obviously, I didn't have to wait for long, she came from the kitchen and lied down on the bed next to me and gave me a nice, tight slap on the balls. Usually she stares at me and enjoys watching my reaction, so she did the same today as well. It definitely hurt, but I recovered from it as fast as I could and looked back at her and told her that we needed to talk. I told Jenna calmly how much it hurts me everytime she does something like that and told her how much I don't like it and how much I want her to stop doing it. I also tried to explain to her the pain that I experience everytime she hits me (multiple times a day) and I also opened a link that was posted in the comments of my previous post by a fellow redditor. That post was about how my testicles can be damaged. I showed her the link and read out the entire article to her thinking that she would understand it, but no, her reaction was something else. Her reaction surprised me and also offended me at the same time. She didn't take me or my words seriously at all! As I was reading the article and telling her how painful it was, she was laughing at me and saying things like "aww, really? That's so interesting".
I usually don't get offended by anything, but this was a serious topic for me and I was expecting a serious reply from her, so when she replied to me that way, I got offended and a little pissed. I told her "this is the last time I'll be telling you this, please stop hitting me", for which she replied with "aww, okay" and immediately hit my balls again and laughed at me.
Again, I'm not a person who gets angry very easily. Me and Jenna have known each other for over 6 years and I bet she's never seen me angry. Yesterday, after her reaction, I got angry and for the first time ever, I spoke to her in an angry tone. I told her that if she doesn't stop doing it, I would leave her.
Hearing me say that and seeing me angry for the first time ever finally made Jenna think and now she knew that I was being serious and this was a serious conversation. I once again told her how painful it was for me and I told her to stop it. I told her everything once again but this time with a slightly louder tone. Once again, her reaction was very strange. She started getting all defensive and told me to stop "attacking her unnecessarily". Now tell me fellers, am I "attacking" her by telling her to STOP HITTING MY GODDAMN BALLS?
I apologized to her and told her and that I'm not attacking her, but I still want my balls not being hit all the time. As a fellow redditor in my previous post commented, I told her that I would give her two weeks to completely stop her habits. Now I don't think that I said anything wrong till now, I can swear on myself that I never said anything that would hurt her, but for some reason, she got really angry and told me that my words hurt her.
She angrily told me "I feel that it's really cute when I do it, I enjoy being cute and open around you, you only think about yourself, you never think about my likes and wants, don't you want me to be happy and have fun in this relationship too?" I calmly explained to her about everything again and told her that I only want her to stop because it really hurts me and it might damage my organs, for which she angrily replied "I bet it doesn't even hurt that much, just a little bit of pain for 5-10, it isn't even that serious, you're just exaggerating, also I only tap them slowly, there's no chance that your balls would get destroyed with such light taps". She literally told me to STOP BEING A PUSSY!
I was literally startled after hearing those words. No offence to her, but I thought that even a 13 year old girl would know more about testicles than her. She's 26 dammit. Now I didn't have anything to say after her replies. I kept quiet, but she had something else to say. She said that if I don't let her touch me, then she would never let me touch her either and she told me never to touch her ever again from today. This conversation that we had today made me very sad and I'm not able to think what to do next. It would be great if somebody can suggest me how to tackle this situation now.
Thanks for reading this folks! Have a great day or whatever!
Tl;dr : Today I had a conversation with my girlfriend where I told her to permanently stop touching my balls. At first, she mocked me and laughed at me but then when I got angry and told her again to stop, she got angry too and she told me that I'm attacking her unnecessarily and I'm not thinking about her likes and wants. She finally told me never to touch her ever again.