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From Girlfriend To Domme/Mistress [VERY LONG STORY] [In Chapters]

DISCLAIMER NOT ALL KINKS IN THIS STORY REFLECT MY PERSONAL KINKS

[C1] Introducing Us

Me (A Sub) [30M] big built 6’5 in height weighing 17.5 stone [245 pounds/111 Kilos] & my girlfriend(Chlo) [32F] blonde hair, slim body, peachy bum, C cup breasts 5’11 in height and weighs around 11 stone [154 pounds/70 kilos] have been together for 3 years Chlo has 3 kids with a separate ex partner. Chlo has never looked into fetish or bdsm she’s only ever done vanilla sex with some biting and scratching, Me I have been into fetish for around 8 years and my experience is watching ALOT of videos online and before Chlo had paid local mistresses on the internet for sessions a handful of times and she knows I’m interested in all that and what kinks I like but not that I’ve paid mistresses, after 2 years off being together I asked her to experiment most fetishes as I had only experienced the ones I knew I would like as I had to pay for them and she said no and that pissed me off and I was in a mood with her for around 3 weeks during which we had sex 3 times and I made it as unromantic as I could before she had enough & told me why she said no and I understood and we moved on. That is our story and this is a story of 1 day in the winter of 2018 at the start of a school holiday. The kids are going to their dads for a holiday they will be picked up at 8am. Disclaimer I’ve changed her name, the activities DID NOT happen, this day DID happen it was just movies, junk food & sex all day & I DID ask her after 2 years if we could try this sort of thing and we tried a few but nothing much as it wasn’t that pleasurable for her.

[C2] - The Start Of The Day

Chlo has been awake since 6am getting her kids showered and fed before they go on holiday with their dad, I wake up around 7:30am put some shorts and dressing gown on and go down for a cigarette, a tea and some breakfast. The kids get picked at 8am and I assume Chlo is going to watch some crap on tv while I scroll through my phone pointlessly, Chlo after 30 mins says to me “you can have TV I’m going to shower & get ready” so I thank her put SkySportsNews on as it’s Saturday & football will be on [ESPN & Soccer to Americans reading this] and we go for a cigarette together [we smoke outside because of children] before Chlo goes and showers. We come in she’s goes up stairs and I sit down, around a hour goes by and Chlo is still upstairs ‘getting ready’ I’ve got morning breathe and want to brush my teeth eventually at 10am Chlo comes down stairs in to the living room where I am watching TV a story has my attention so I haven’t looked at Chlo yet and she’s just stood in the doorway. After a couple minutes I turn my head to ask her why she is just standing there and notice she is wearing [all brand new] Black & Red Lingerie with Suspenders & Stockings and very shiny high heels, She’s holding a collar and lead and before I can say anything she says “I want you fucking naked NOW” I go to say “ooooo I like this ok I’ll do that now” I get half way through saying ‘like’ she shouts “stop fucking talking and take off your fucking dressing gown and clothes” me thinking she’s trying to be sexy for me by asserting some form of dominance strips naked as quick as I possibly can already half erected just from this attitude. Once I done that she throws the collar at me which she has clipped to the lead already and says “put that on and then follow me like a bitch” I put it on, she turns round and starts to walk off and I go to follow her, she then spins round slaps me full pelt in the face and shouts “are you fucking stupid I said like a bitch what fucking bitch do you see walk on 2 legs now I’ll say it again follow me like a fucking bitch” I immediately drop to all 4s and follow her and we go upstairs to the bedroom.

[C3] The Bedroom & The Real Start

We get to the bedroom & our bed was usually against 1 wall in the middle so we both had bedside cabinets now it’s pushed into a corner, her chest of drawers and cabinet are placed on top of mine there’s actually a lot of room. I look round the room and the curtains and blind is shut and the room is lit up by candles and I think “she’s trying to be dominant, she’s dressed up & a candle lit room I must be getting lucky” then I look over to the bed and on the bed there are restraints, handcuffs, a blindfold, a ball gag, a riding crop with a red love heart, a flogger, a impression paddle a cain, nipple clamps, Cock rings and 4 strap ons a small one a medium one a big one and a huge one. She walks over & sits on the edge of the bed I follow her on all 4s she looks at me & says “sit like a bitch” so I bend my knees up & put my hands palms down on the floor trying to sit just like a dog. She then says “right today you are my bitch, my object & I fucking own you. Remember a year ago you asked to explore all fetishes and I said no” I reply “yes” she then says “and you was moody with me for weeks, barely spoke to me, avoided sex the best you could & even when you did you made it obvious you wasn’t interested making me feel like shit forcing me to tell you why I said no” so I say “yes and I’m still very sorry” I go to add more but she interrupts saying “shut the fuck up im talking and you listen to every fucking thing I say you understand?” I tell her that I understand and she carries on “for the last 6 months while you’ve been at work I’ve been reading about every single fetish there is, I’ve watched clips, I’ve searched forums on how to be a mistress and I’ve baught these toys, lingerie and 2 pairs of heels with your credit card the ones on my feet are Louboutins they cost £900, I have a pair of stilletos with extra sharp heels they cost £100 and the toys came to about £400 so work hard and pay for them [I felt like crying but was too turned on by this] today like I said you are my fucking bitch and you do what I want, when I want, how I want no fucking questions no complaining you just fucking do it. You wanted to try most fetishes well unless it involves needles or knifes we are trying them all that’s why I’m starting early and we will not stop until at very least midnight do you understand?” I say “thank you I understand but I don’t want to do these fetishes” she stops me there and says “awww honey you don’t have a fucking choice, today I am in control I’m in charge and it’s all about me. Today girlfriend Chloe is dead [always called Chlo by family/friends & me] I am Mistress Chlo today and I have fuck all feelings for you your going to pleasure me, your going to suffer for me, your going to beg me for mercy I’m going to be as rough and sadistic as possible you are never going to forget this fucking day let’s just say this day will scar you mentally and most fucking importantly physically also from this moment you will only address me as Mistress, Mistress Chlo, Goddess, Goddess Chlo, Queen or Queen Chlo and you will thank me for every thing I do to you even if you don’t like it do you understand?” I tell her “yes I understand” she pauses for a moment looking disappointed she slaps me full force twice in the face and shouts in my face “are actually fucking stupid do I need to beat fucking sense in to you what did I just tell you to address me as” and I say “Sorry Goddess Chlo I’m very sorry can you forgive me ” [hoping clips I’ve seen helps with dialog] “I will this time and only this time, I will not reward you for doing something good but you can fucking bet I will punish you for doing something wrong or even slightly annoying me now I’ve told you what we are doing and how we doing it let’s start ” she replies the time is now 10:20am Chlo stands up and says “bitch follow me oh and don’t expect me to call you by your name for the whole day either so get used to it” “yes my queen thank you” I reply following her on all 4s and we go to the bathroom Chlo points to the floor and says “sit” I do so and she says “good bitch now tilt your head back & open your mouth and keep it open until I tell you 2 close it” and I do as she says not saying anything, Chlo then brushes her teeth. When she’s done brushing she leans over puts her mouth near mine and spits all the toothpaste and saliva into my mouth and demands I swallow it so I do & she then does the same with her mouthwash. Before leaving the bathroom I go to brush mine Chlo says “ermmm what the fuck are you doing” so I say “brushing my teeth goddess” to which she replies “erm no your not I just done mine and spat the remains in to your mouth and you swallowed it that’s as good as it gets for a worthless slave like you now follow me you worthless bitch” so I’m back on all 4s following her to the bedroom again. We get back in and she hands me a pill off the cabinet it’s a light blue pill and she says”take this slave” so I ask “what is it?” And her face drops “didn’t I say no fucking questions god we ain’t even proper started the day session and I feel like I have to punish you already do you want to be punished?” She says aggressively like she’s actually getting pissed off with me so I say “no mistress you don’t need to punish me thank you for the pill goddess” and I swallow the pill. “Slave it’s time for the first activity get your pathetic ass over to the wall stand up and face it” she demands and I crawl over to the wall stand up and face the wall “this flogger looks pretty don’t they slave I hope your ready and if you cry like a bitch which I know you will I will gag you” she says while half laughing [so far this is a completely new person that just happens to look and sound like my girlfriend, it’s only the attitude and domina that’s different but I’m head over heels in love with it so far] she stops half laughing and says “bitch boy I’ll make you a deal I’m going to give you 20 lashes with the flogger and if you take all of them with no flinching you get fuck all I said I’m not rewarding you but if you flinch I add a extra lash for every flinch do we have a deal it sounds fair” while she giggles to herself over what she just said I say “can I please have the 20 mistress no deal” she then laughs even more “HAHAHAHAHA you thought you had a choice you silly stupid bitch you had no choice your a slave now choices are a privilege that’s been revoked from you” and the second the word you comes from her mouth CRACK the first lash from the flogger across the top of my back she laughs and says “good bitch no crying” and I reply “thank you mistress it felt wonderful” “oh did it now” she says then immediately after another 3 lashes all in quick succession and all on the top half of my back I let out a small cry of pain “that’s it bitch I fucking warned you” and she walks to the bed comes up behind me demanding to put the gag in my mouth just before I do that I’m feeling some discomfort with my cock and she notices it “what is it slave your cock feeling weird?” I immediately think how does she know and reply “yes mistress it is how did you know?” She laughs and says “well I’m going to use you as a sex toy multiple times today and I didn’t want you to cum and be done I might want to carry on after you cum or for you go soft because your in pain so that pill I gave you was viagra your going to be rock solid for about 14 hours ready when ever I want” she then laughs loudly [so evil and calculated] she straps the gag up and heads back to the lashing position and she does one more lash and I swear these are hitting the same spot every time she goes to do another one and I tense up waiting for it “awwwww bitch boy you’ve flinched and we are only on the 6th hahahaha I get 1 more now thank you bitch boy I’ll use it well” after each lash she’s pausing and taunting me “oooo that was a nice one wasn’t it bitch” “you love it really don’t you slut” “come on slave cry for Mistress Chlo” “cry for Chlo cry for Chlo cry for Chlo” she’s creating pauses so the pain sinks in and I stand and wait for the next and flinch/tense my body after all is said and done the flogger lashed the top of my back a total of 28 times. Chlo says “wow slave your back is such a amazing shade of red” [this is the opposite of the girlfriend that says sorry if she feels she hugs me to hard or tugs me too hard during handjobs but I love it] she walks up digs her nails in my back and slowly scrapes them down my back lucky for the gag or I would have screamed she then grabs a handful of my hair yanks my head bites my ear and tugs on it and says “if that hurt then wait until I get the cain out or when I’m dragging stiletto heels down it” she says it quietly but with such a sinister tone of voice “now slave step back and bend over its paddle time” and she walks over to get the paddle it’s a impression one with the word slut on it she comes back over and with out saying a thing puts everything into 1 spank with it and I’m so lucky for this gag I would have screamed like a girl “yay I done it in one and they really do print on you now time for the other cheek” CRACK on the other cheek “well done bitch you’ve officially graduated as a top slut” I’m so confused but can’t ask how and why I’m gagged she then says “slave you got a little break I’m going for a cigarette and for what I’m going to do next I need you blindfolded so that blindfold best be on your fucking head and sit in that corner facing the walls like a bitch” she then leaves to go outside for a cigarette and I sit in the corner exactly as instructed thinking how the hell has someone who was vanilla turned into this sort of mistress in what seems over night, this person who says sorry if she calls me stupid or a idiot now calling me any degrading name she can think off or how she was saying sorry for slightly hurting me to now whipping and spanking, wanting to torture me with heels but I love it.